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“Reason #4562 Why Comparison is Bad”

We all know it. Don’t compare. And while you’re at it, don’t ‘should’ either.  All ‘shoulding’ ever does is get a bunch of people ‘shoulding’ all over themselves and feeling terrible in the process. After all, we’re allowed to feel what we feel…riiigghht?? And so exists the great paradox.  I shouldn’t compare.  But I do. Continue Reading ““Reason #4562 Why Comparison is Bad””

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“The proverbial bite in the ass”

I probably should have seen it coming.  Indeed, this entry goes out to all of you who are engaging in some sort of quasi, you-know-deep-down-this-is-bad-news-bears type of situation.  And while those come in all shapes and sizes, this one is about boundaries. I have this friend—opposite sex, of course—who when we first became friends, wereContinue Reading ““The proverbial bite in the ass””